Cynde Layne Wilkerson
Jesus answered and said unto her, If thou knewest the gift of God, Luke 4:10

I found this list of priceless gifts, however, there is no greater gift that has been given or that can be given than Jesus; He is the gift of God that keeps on giving.

Priceless Gifts
It's that time of year again known as Christmas. Whether we're a Jew, Christian, Muslim, Buddhist, or Hindu - believer or unbeliever – just about all welcome a season that's devoted to GIVING. For that's when humanity is at its best. That's the time we transcend our petty thoughts of self-interest and reach out to others. The good news about the priceless gifts I recommend are that they are affordable by all. Here is a list of gifts you may wish to consider.

1. PEACE OF MIND. Instead of upsetting others with anger, suspicion, or impatience, grant them peace of mind by being understanding and accepting. Drop childish demands, the need to always be right, and the insistence that others live by your rules. When you grant others peace of mind, you will discover your own. For as someone else wrote, "The road to daily happiness is not hard to find, it's what we do for others that brings us peace of mind."

2. FORGIVENESS. This is not only the season for giving; it is also the season for forgiving. Although there are many similar cases, the media carried a story this week of a mother who forgave the man who brutally murdered her daughter. By releasing the rage she felt in her heart, she was able to get on with life and focus on doing good, instead of wishing harm to another. Is there a coworker, relative, or neighbor that you are holding a grudge against? If so, isn't time to forgive and forget? Someone said to me, "I can't forgive my neighbor because she is so rude." But isn't it rude to call one's neighbor rude? So, you see, when we find fault with others, we defile ourselves. We can't cast mud on others without splashing some on us.

3. JOY, EXUBERANCE. No one likes a complainer. So, rather than whining, start dining at the banquet of life. Start spreading the good news. Spread cheer, not fear. Avoid hanging out with malcontents. It's true that misery loves company, but you don't have to accept their invitation.

4. YOURSELF. Give the greatest gift of all, yourself, by serving others. When you do so, you will experience joy. For as the Nobel Prize winner and Bengali poet, Rabindranath Tagore (1861 ~ 1941), wrote, "I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy."

5. HOPE. Discouraging words can destroy people and encouraging ones can uplift them. Offer the gift of hope by heeding the words of Albert Schweitzer (1875 ~ 1965), "Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light." Rekindle the flickering flames of those around you. And don't neglect yourself, for as Harriet Du Autermont writes, "No vision and you perish; No Ideal, and you're lost; Your heart must ever cherish Some faith at any cost. Some hope, some dream to cling to, Some rainbow in the sky, Some melody to sing to, Some service that is high."

6. UNDERSTANDING. Try to put yourself in the place of others and understand how they feel. In this regard, George Washington Carver (1864 ~ 1943) offered this advice, "How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and strong; because some day in life you will have been all these."

7. FRIENDSHIP. Can you imagine anything more painful than loneliness? To help eliminate it, be a friend. By offering companionship and support, you help make their and your life worthwhile. Or as Amanda Bradley wrote, "Celebrate the happiness that friends are always giving, make every day a holiday and celebrate just living!"

8. COMFORT. A gentle look, a soft touch, or a warm embrace may be all that is needed to lessen the pain of another. Isn't it amazing how so little effort on our part can change the life of another for the better? Here's sound advice, "Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them."

9. A SMILE. A smile puts people at ease. It tells them you are not a threat. It lightens their burdens and raises their hopes. And when it accompanies another gift, the recipient is twice rewarded. Robert Alan put his thoughts on smiling in verse: "Sometimes just a smile on our face can help to make this world a better place. Stand up for the things that are right. Try to talk things out instead of fight. Lend a hand when you can, get involved this is good. You can help to make a difference in your neighborhood."

10. A CHANCE. One of the great gifts we can offer to another is a chance. If they've gone astray, we can give them the opportunity to make up for their misdeeds and recover from their mistakes. By recognizing that people make mistakes, we give them the courage to change. What better way to make a better world?

The above represent only some of the many gifts we have in our power to give. We can decide on the most appropriate one by asking ourselves, "What is the most loving thing I can do for the person now before me?" Our gifts don't have to exceptional. Even small ones will do, for as Mother Teresa (1910 ~ 1997) said, "It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving." As we go through life dispensing gifts, we discover who we are and who we can become. And with time we will learn that the good we do for us dies with us, but the good we do for others lives on. © Chuck Gallozzi

As you ponder over some of the gifts above, I would add "hope"; it is certainly one of importance, as you give the gift from God, Jesus, you automatically give the gift of hope, the One who was born, and died and rose just for you! The gift that lasts forever!

Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year everyone (3 John 1:2)!

Morning Love will convene on January 1, 2011.


Until the morning, be blessed!
Cynde
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Cynde Layne Wilkerson
And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. Luke 2:10

Christmas is a time when I literally, almost revert back to childhood. It’s the season that makes me so "giddy" because it holds so many wonderful memories for me. My Dad made Christmas joyous and happy. First, was the search for the perfect tree on Christmas Eve (my Dad hyped everything up a notch to make Christmas a memorable season); as we decorated and trimmed the tree, we sang Christmas carols; ate more popcorn than we strung, and in my mind, we had the best house on Christmas. Since we lived in West Virginia, singing, “I’m dreaming of a white Christmas” was not far fetched; we didn’t have to dream about it, we experienced it. The excitement didn’t end there because the morning after Santa Claus of course, it was off to Granny’s house for more fun, food and family.

As wonderful as those memories are for me, I understand in it's entirety now, the songs we sung and reason why we celebrate the season. As commercialized as the world makes it, I understand why the birth had to happen and why I can be joyous while rejoicing all the day even without my natural Dad, the tree, the stringing of the popcorn or the gifts that Santa brings on Christmas. I understand that the Jesus is the ultimate gift to me, and it is so important to remember this is the reason why we celebrate Christmas; for the precious gift that was given to us so freely, so lovingly, and so unselfishly.

This is also the season when the suicide rate is higher, depression is higher, and sadness is a common place for some. Many may be experiencing loss, whether a family member or employment; perhaps hurt, anxiety or emotions from other factors are hard to bear. We who know the wonderful great tidings, can be the angel that shares and bring joy to others during this season. ‘Tis the season especially, to be loving, giving, helpful, prayerful, and generous, not only with our time, but with our resources.

This happy, joyful and wonderful feeling of Christmas for me is one that I can’t lose because I know Who is my joy, my help, my peace, and my saving grace, not just during this season but year round! There is a saying, Know Jesus, Know Peace; No Jesus, No Peace (or Love, Joy, Happiness, Favor! and these are only some of the words I can think of right now). 'Tis the Season to be joyous!

Until the morning, be blessed,
Cynde
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